Today I went to the funeral of my cousin Steven. He died at the age of 31. I can't remember the last time I saw him? I only remember him when he was very young playing the piano at Grandpa's house.
Steven was a child prodigy. He was born with remarkable music skills. He must have been around 8 when I heard him play. I couldn't believe what I was hearing! His fingers were running up and down the keyboard like he was a concert pianist.
The Wilson family was very close when Grandpa and Grandma were alive. We spent a lot of time together hanging out at the cabin, The Homestead, or Grandma and Grandpa's house. That's where the cousin relationships were built - could we ever mess up a basement! Grandpa let us ride his mini bike around the backyard. He had a cash register in the basement, where many "play" transactions were made. There were also forts made under the pool table and ping pong gun fights galore!
Because I was so grown up (cough, cough) I didn't hang out with my Uncle Harvey's kids. I was a teenager with an attitude. I'm sure I made fun of the little buggers!
I wish I could turn back the clock and sit and listen to Steven play the piano again. I would pay much more attention to my younger cousins. They probably thought I was mean. Maybe they didn't care I didn't give attention their way? I hope so.
So because my heart is filled with love for my cousins, aunts and uncles today, I pledge to pay more attention to my extended family. Love you guys!
Rest in peace, Steven
Karen
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